Grace for the Chaos, Love in every Season
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Motherhood, Marriage and making it through together.
Life after cancer made me rethink everything, especially how I show up for my family.
With three kids, a firefighter husband often away for days at a time, and a body still healing, I realized that survival in our home wasn’t just about getting through the day, it was about creating rhythms that gave us peace in the middle of the chaos.
Why Routine Became Our Anchor
When my husband was gone on long shifts and friends or family would come to help, one thing made all the difference for our kids: consistency.
We didn’t have to reinvent the wheel every day.
The same morning steps.
The same after-school routine.
The same bedtime flow.
That predictability made the transitions between caregivers smooth, and it gave my kids a sense of security no matter who was here to help or what my energy level was.
What Helped Our Mornings Run Smoother
Here are a few simple shifts things that kept us grounded:
Clothes prepped the night before – No more rushing or last-minute “Where’s my shoe?” moments.
Backpacks packed and ready – Homework signed, lunches prepped, water bottles filled.
Breakfast basics on rotation – A short list of healthy, easy-to-make breakfasts so nobody had to think too hard.
Morning “check-in” moments – Even if it was 2 minutes, I tried to connect with each child before the day got busy.
For Anyone Walking Through a Hard Season
If you’re in a season where life feels uncertain, maybe your spouse travels for work, maybe you’re recovering from illness, or maybe you’re simply stretched thin. I want you to know that creating a steady rhythm for your home can be a gift for everyone in it.
It doesn’t have to be perfect.
It doesn’t have to be Pinterest-worthy.
It just has to be consistent enough to give you breathing room and give your kids a sense of stability.
“But everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way.” — 1 Corinthians 14:40
That verse reminded me that order isn’t about perfection — it’s about creating peace in your home so love can flow freely.
My Next Step for You
I encourage you to look at just one part of your day and ask:
“What could I prep ahead?”
“What could I make consistent?”
You might be surprised how even the smallest routines can help you and your kids feel more settled, and more able to face whatever the day brings.
